Even when we differ

In Apeldoorn, I don’t think we need to agree with one another. Having different opinions and discussing them is part and parcel of an open society. The question is how we go about it. Do we keep listening, even when we don’t manage to convince one another?

This is a topical issue. You’ve no doubt heard about it: the temporary emergency accommodation for asylum seekers and those granted refugee status at Waleweingaarde in Apeldoorn is causing quite a stir. Sometimes the reactions are hostile, at other times quite reasonable and polite. There are demonstrations, conversations on the street, online discussions and plenty of questions. Either way, this issue is affecting people in the neighbourhood and across the city.

We are naturally inclined to look in the direction from which the loudest noise comes. I think it’s important to make a conscious effort to pay attention to the residents of Apeldoorn who are less vocal. People in the De Maten neighbourhood who have concerns, but who aren’t out on the barricades. Who are thinking about what the arrival of that reception centre means for daily life in the neighbourhood or the future of the neighbourhood. That voice deserves to be heard.

That is precisely why I think it is important for me to be visible and approachable in the neighbourhood. At meetings, around a kitchen table. Not to take away all their concerns or to make everyone think the same way. But to have a conversation. To explain what’s going on, what has and hasn’t been decided, and above all to hear what’s on residents’ minds regarding that temporary emergency shelter.

The way in which we conduct this discussion helps to determine how you feel as a local resident. And that is what matters to me. After all, we remain neighbours, fellow townspeople and residents of the same local authority. And ultimately, we all share the same wish: a pleasant and safe neighbourhood, where people feel at home and look out for one another.

Apeldoorn is bigger than this one issue. Whatever the situation, we’ll carry on together. For me, therefore, living together starts with something simple, yet important: continuing to see and talk to one another. Even when we disagree.